We've all to some extent been introduced to pain to some degree or another. Some of us more familiar than others; some of us physical, some of us emotional, and most both. Pain isn't a comfort, pain isn't a gift (well,....depends how you may look at it), pain isn't your friend, regardless of how familiar you are. Pain can be expected, but it is mostly unforeseen. The degree of pain cannot be calculated, so you can never truly prepare yourself for it. IF you're human and you're reading this, I'd like to believe that you would prefer not associating yourself with pain.
One of the worst pains we may experience is heartbreak. I don't mean physically tearing open your chest and shredding/ tearing/ ripping/ "BREAKING" your heart! There's no denying that a heartbreak can make you feel as though someone is playing doctor and you're the patient. There's no denying it may feel as though they are indeed opening your chest and just fucking everything up in sight. I'm talking about emotionally being ruined, being destroyed, being left with a feeling that leaves you without feeling. HEARTBREAK, HEARTBREAK, HEARTBREAK!
It hurts! Ofcourse it does! It's unexpected! Ofcourse it is! You gave your heart away, you opened yourself and became vulnerable. It doesn't matter why you did it, you already did. You gave it away with no expectations to get it back, BUT what happens when you do?
What happens when the person you gave it to tells you that they're going to keep it but eventually returns it? You don't stretch your hands out because you don't want it, but it's still there sitting right next to you. Your heart isn't the same, you don't recognize it anymore.....it's broken, scarred, torn, burnt.
The pain you face is too real because your fantasy has become more of your reality. Although the pain may be unbearable, your only move from this point forward is to ease the hurt. Let me be more realistic, you want to the pain to STOP all together. No one says you're not allowed to mourn, no one says you're not allowed to cry or feel sad. Express yourself, don't accept that you are supposed to be feeling this pain, but accept that you are! When someone breaks your heart they only do it once, everything else you feel are the after burns from all those scars.
When your heart is broken, most of the time you are the one that breaks it AGAIN, and AGAIN, and AGAIN! If someone broke your heart, why gather the pieces and give it back? I'm not saying you shouldn't fight for what you want, but there's a limit and there's a reality.
Your heart is already broken, why try to find out how many MORE pieces it can break into? Gather yourself and get your shit together. Don't hate someone for breaking your heart if all you do after that is continuously break it yourself.
Stop searching for temporary distractions. Stop searching for memories you don't wanna see, memories that trap you in a point where you can't move forward or backwards. Stop hoping for a fantasy when you're back in reality. Stop hating someone for what they did to you if you're only gonna do it worst to yourself.
We all get hurt, we all feel pain, but throwing salt on the wound only makes the burn more excruciating. Your heart may be broken, but your brain isn't.......Fix your life because the other person is moving on with theirs!
One of the worst pains we may experience is heartbreak. I don't mean physically tearing open your chest and shredding/ tearing/ ripping/ "BREAKING" your heart! There's no denying that a heartbreak can make you feel as though someone is playing doctor and you're the patient. There's no denying it may feel as though they are indeed opening your chest and just fucking everything up in sight. I'm talking about emotionally being ruined, being destroyed, being left with a feeling that leaves you without feeling. HEARTBREAK, HEARTBREAK, HEARTBREAK!
It hurts! Ofcourse it does! It's unexpected! Ofcourse it is! You gave your heart away, you opened yourself and became vulnerable. It doesn't matter why you did it, you already did. You gave it away with no expectations to get it back, BUT what happens when you do?
What happens when the person you gave it to tells you that they're going to keep it but eventually returns it? You don't stretch your hands out because you don't want it, but it's still there sitting right next to you. Your heart isn't the same, you don't recognize it anymore.....it's broken, scarred, torn, burnt.
The pain you face is too real because your fantasy has become more of your reality. Although the pain may be unbearable, your only move from this point forward is to ease the hurt. Let me be more realistic, you want to the pain to STOP all together. No one says you're not allowed to mourn, no one says you're not allowed to cry or feel sad. Express yourself, don't accept that you are supposed to be feeling this pain, but accept that you are! When someone breaks your heart they only do it once, everything else you feel are the after burns from all those scars.
When your heart is broken, most of the time you are the one that breaks it AGAIN, and AGAIN, and AGAIN! If someone broke your heart, why gather the pieces and give it back? I'm not saying you shouldn't fight for what you want, but there's a limit and there's a reality.
Your heart is already broken, why try to find out how many MORE pieces it can break into? Gather yourself and get your shit together. Don't hate someone for breaking your heart if all you do after that is continuously break it yourself.
Stop searching for temporary distractions. Stop searching for memories you don't wanna see, memories that trap you in a point where you can't move forward or backwards. Stop hoping for a fantasy when you're back in reality. Stop hating someone for what they did to you if you're only gonna do it worst to yourself.
We all get hurt, we all feel pain, but throwing salt on the wound only makes the burn more excruciating. Your heart may be broken, but your brain isn't.......Fix your life because the other person is moving on with theirs!
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