Maybe its just me, but I'm sure it could be the same with you........
You know what I hate?......"Hate" might be too strong of a word to use.
You know what really bothers me?
You know what I really just cant understand?
Quite frankly, I don't get upset because I'm sensitive or emotional, it simply bothers me because the mere fact that I truly CAN'T understand. In my big not so round fucked up head it just doesn't make any sense for 2 persons to be in a relationship without trust! (That's what I don't understand).
Seeing a guy, or a female getting fucked up because their significant other has friends or a close friend of the opposite sex is just fucking disturbing. Are you really THAT insecure?!
Here are some simple logical explanations that should put your negative insecure minds at ease;
First of all, it will take not the only the effort of the other person out of the relationship, but the effort of YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER. Meaning, as long as your significant other is straight with you, it doesn't matter how much their friend or a stranger tries to hit on them. Yes it is very disrespectful, but that's one of those fucked up things that's out of your control.
Secondly, if you're feeling insecure about your significant other clearly means you have trust issues. Really and truly, why the fuck are you even with someone you clearly don't trust? It's like saying 1+1=3.....it just doesn't add up!
Thirdly, your significant other may be attractive to YOU, the attraction may just end there. Not because you want your woman/ man means that everyone else wants them as well.
Fourthly, maybe, just MAYBE your significant other has friends that actually respects them, you and your relationship. I'm just saying......the option is always there.
To be honest, fair is fair. You know how people are always telling you to "put yourself in their shoes", well go ahead and do just that. Think to yourself, how many friends do you really have that's attractive and potentially has an attraction towards you. Do you even take them on? Does it really matter if they're attracted to you if YOU know that nothing will develop? How would you feel if your significant other feel a way about your relationships with your friends?
Relationships are all about trust, the moment you lose that trust is the very moment went the relationship itself starts to diminish. If you're in it, be in it. Trust your other, be open-minded, communicate, ask questions. Don't lose out on what you have because of pride and insecurities. Life is all about understanding, it just gets complicated when you lose that understanding!
You know what I hate?......"Hate" might be too strong of a word to use.
You know what really bothers me?
You know what I really just cant understand?
Quite frankly, I don't get upset because I'm sensitive or emotional, it simply bothers me because the mere fact that I truly CAN'T understand. In my big not so round fucked up head it just doesn't make any sense for 2 persons to be in a relationship without trust! (That's what I don't understand).
Seeing a guy, or a female getting fucked up because their significant other has friends or a close friend of the opposite sex is just fucking disturbing. Are you really THAT insecure?!
First of all, it will take not the only the effort of the other person out of the relationship, but the effort of YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER. Meaning, as long as your significant other is straight with you, it doesn't matter how much their friend or a stranger tries to hit on them. Yes it is very disrespectful, but that's one of those fucked up things that's out of your control.
Secondly, if you're feeling insecure about your significant other clearly means you have trust issues. Really and truly, why the fuck are you even with someone you clearly don't trust? It's like saying 1+1=3.....it just doesn't add up!
Thirdly, your significant other may be attractive to YOU, the attraction may just end there. Not because you want your woman/ man means that everyone else wants them as well.
Fourthly, maybe, just MAYBE your significant other has friends that actually respects them, you and your relationship. I'm just saying......the option is always there.
To be honest, fair is fair. You know how people are always telling you to "put yourself in their shoes", well go ahead and do just that. Think to yourself, how many friends do you really have that's attractive and potentially has an attraction towards you. Do you even take them on? Does it really matter if they're attracted to you if YOU know that nothing will develop? How would you feel if your significant other feel a way about your relationships with your friends?
Relationships are all about trust, the moment you lose that trust is the very moment went the relationship itself starts to diminish. If you're in it, be in it. Trust your other, be open-minded, communicate, ask questions. Don't lose out on what you have because of pride and insecurities. Life is all about understanding, it just gets complicated when you lose that understanding!
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