The End Of Love Isn't The End Of Life.

If you're reading this then it probably means that you're still alive even after having your heart broken. 

I know that it hurts,
I know that your heart has been shattered in pieces, too many pieces to even count.
I know that the pain is nothing you ever imagined, nothing you thought was possible. Your mind is scratching away at every bit of sanity you're desperately trying to cling on to. 
I know that you never expected this day to come, Yes, today. The day when breathing isn't enough to convince yourself that you're still alive, but believe me.....you are.

The pain hurts, but the real question is, which pain? Is it the pain from the heartbreak or is it the pain you're causing yourself?

Your heart is in pain, but so is your stomach. Do you feel that gripping tightness taking a hold of you? The unbearable cramping, the feeling of tearing away from inside. The feeling of emptiness, not mentally but physically. The feeling of starvation.....that's all you.
Pain causes you to cry, but pain also causes you to cry. All your days and days of crying begins to take a toll on you. Crushing headaches, eyes boiling causing them to swell, runny nose...all triggers a cycle. I'm not saying you're not allowed to CRY! but do not cry yourself FROM pain TO pain.
YOU'RE ALIVE!
Did you read what I said? YOU ARE FUCKING ALIVE!!
They couldn't kill you, so don't you dare think about dying.
They hurt you and you hate the feeling, so don't you dare think about becoming them and hurting yourself.
I dare you to do what they couldn't do.....treat YOU right....LOVE you right!!!

A broken heart is just a figure of speech. Your actions after experiencing this emotional trauma is what will determine if your heart will truly be broken or not.

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Do you remember what you did before you were in love?
Do you remember what the world was like before you fell in love?

You lived........and the world was the world.
You were you before who you are today, and the world was spinning just as it is today.

Experiencing sadness and emotional instability is understandable, so cry, scream, shout and let it all out!
But do that today, let it all out today.....
For just as yesterday, just as today, tomorrow life continues.

Remember:
SomeONE broke your heart, not EVERYONE. Do not give that person the chance to anything else away from you or hurt you anymore. There will be people that care about you that will want to help you, not hurt you. There will be people that care about you that wants to be a ear to listen to your troubles, not a mouth to judge you. There will be people that care about you that want to comfort you, not put you through more pain. Do not allow that ONE person to make you lose faith in the goodness in others.
You loved once and you'll love again, if that doesn't work you'll love again after that. 1 person, 2 people, or even 3 don't represent the world, so if you wanna love, keep loving again until it works. Love until you're loved, you owe it to yourself, you deserve it!

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